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Dear Mae B. Stern,

Q;My girlfriend live in Arizona (I live in Vancouver) and calls me 65 times a day. I can’t answer my cellphone because I am a bus driver and she gets very angry. We have been dating for a year now and this is a pretty regular occurrance. The problem is that when she can’t reach me she leaves nasty message where she calls me all kinds of names. I know that when I am with her she loves me but she worries about me cheating when we are apart. How do I deal with this?

A: Get a new number and get on with your life. This woman is a stalker and you are a fool.

Q:My boyfriend gets really jealous when I dress up and look good. How do I handle this?

A: Get a new boyfriend. Someone who appreciates a good looking woman.

Q:I have been dating my boyfriend for a year now and everything is great. However when we are along and he is on the computer and I enter the room he slams it shut. What does this mean?

A: It means he is prowling the internet dating sites or chat rooms. Check the history section of the internet. If he cleans it out put on a program that can monitor his activities, validate your suspicions. and then bunt him out the front door. Dishonesty is not acceptable in relationships.

Q: I have been dating a married man for the past year. He is going to leave his wife as soon as his two kids graduate (which is this year). He is just not ready to do so yet as he doesn’t want to disrupt his kids lives. How much time after graduation should I give him?

A: So you are not a disruption to his kids lives now? Get real. He has a commitment that he is not doing a good job of honoring. So why do you want this guy? Low on self respect are we? You don’t give him any time – get out.

Q: I am 18 and love my boyfriend of 2 years. We spend all out time together. I have given up all my activities so we can be together. Our parents are not too happy about this. What should I do?

A: Of course your parents are not happy about this. Whether you are in love or not you need to have your own activities and interests. Otherwise you become a big boring person to everyone around you. Trust me, nooone wants to hear about your “boyfriend” and what makes him great for 2 years.

Well folks, that’s about all the wisdom I can dispense today. Frankly I find it exhausting when I read about some of your lives.

Just remember my words of the week – when someone is married that means they have made a commitment to that person. If it is easy to break that commitment with you then you are not that important either.

Thanks for reading ,

Mae B. Stern